Here we go again.. with a head full of thoughts and a heart full of emotions. I notice how mad people get about love. I see it every day. New love, Old Love, Destroyed love, Broke Love, and Tender love. People that dont believe love exists. People that think love never stays for long. People that think love will never stick around in another ones heart. People that think love can't happen more than once. People that want love in multiple people. People that let love run.
What exactly makes the difference than a summer fling and that couple thats 50 years deep? I can tell you what I think that is, but that really needs to be defined by YOU. I think people mistake love for something it really isn't. It CAN be magical for some time but the magic wont stay on its own. Just like when you stop going to the gym, that muscle isn't going to stick around for long. Love takes work, sometimes brutal pain throbbing work, but what doesn't take that kind of work when we want it really bad.
I think everyday how I wake up on a battle field and how I am going to make it through. What moves I am going to make and what I am going to let hurt and what I wont let affect me. The point is the battle is different everyday, Love is constantly changing. We have to keep our hearts open and hold patients and understanding within us and show it when it is needed.
I think a lot of times relationships crash because we want that feeling of new love, because that is everyones favorite kind of love. The adrenaline rush of butterflies and new feelings and new experiences, thats why people cheat, because it feels new and exciting. In a real relationship that will fade the more and more you get to know someone. If you give in to someone else than the one you love you get to experience those new feelings... for how long? A month. You'd give up someone you have got to know and knows you and loves you for a momentary pleasure. What real love holds is the butterflies of surprise of a growing love. Everyone thinks they want that New love because they havent gave Growing love a chance.
Growing love is what 50 years later holds strong. Love that can knock us off our feet over and over because we never stopped fighting for it. It truly is the fight.
"Then maybe we'll be lucky
If we forget our regrets
The things we did
That we never really meant
Maybe we can say it's a good day
Finally realize that
There is no such thing as a yesterday
As far for the future, I know this
Tomorrow is a wish
And it don't exist, uh
Don't make plans
Cause that's just open
Don't make promise
Because they get broken
Let's just take it one day at a time
And live our lives" - Jason Reeves
Love exists moment to moment. Once we take our eyes off that moment we see things we dont need and we think that if we leave there is something better, But Love dont Run.
"Let’s lay it on the line, I don’t care if it takes all night cause
This is gonna make us stronger, it’s gonna make forever longer
I know it’d be easier walking away but what we got is real
And I wanna save us, baby we can do it, Baby we’ll get through it 'cause...
Love don’t run, love don’t hide
It won't turn away or back down from a fight
Baby I’m right here and I ain't going anywhere
Love’s too tough, it wont give up no not on us
Baby Love don’t run
Baby love don’t run
So come over here and lay down in my arms
Baby tell me everything that’s on your heart, 'cause...
I won’t run, and I won’t hide
I won’t turn away, I just wanna make things right
Baby I’m right here and I ain't going anywhere
Love’s too tough it won’t give up no not on us
Baby Love don’t run" -Lee Brice
I am here to fight and I dont give up. Ill never give up on the one that is true.
